I read a story from a woman who feels invisible next to her husband… because his eyes wander. He stares at other women, even when she’s right there. And when she brings it up, he calls her “crazy.”
She even said she wouldn’t really mind if he only glanced discreetly once in a while — because she does the same sometimes. What hurts her is how obvious and disrespectful he makes it.
But for me? No. π I can’t see it as “normal.” If you truly love, you don’t have eyes for anyone else.
I’ve been in different relationships before. Always searching. Always longing. For what? For the kind of love that is absolute π — the love where your partner is your entire universe, and the rest of the world just fades into background noise.
And thank God… I found it. π€
To me, no man could ever compare. You could show me the “most handsome man alive,” and all I’d think is: “He’s okay, I guess.” Because in my eyes, my husband is the most beautiful, the strongest, the most magnetic. My only one. ✨
I think this dream of mine was born from The Notebook. That story touched me so deeply… especially the part where memory fades, but love stays. My grandmother had Alzheimer’s too π… and even then, she remembered only one person: my grandfather. That’s how much she loved him. That’s what I wanted. And that’s what I’ve found. π«
So when I hear people excusing “wandering eyes,” I just can’t agree. Because real love, true love… doesn’t wander. It stays. It chooses you, again and again. πΉ✨
And that’s the kind of love I believe in. That’s the kind of love I live. π
So, how exactly you can know if are in a healthy relationship where you love him and he loves you for real?
π 20 Signs Your Love Is True ✨
1. You feel proud to stand by each other’s side
Presence brings pride, never embarrassment.
2. You don’t compare each other to others
No one else shines brighter in your eyes. πΈ
3. You both listen and value each other’s feelings
Even in conflict, emotions are respected, not dismissed.
4. Consistency defines your bond
Love shows up in small daily acts, not just grand gestures.
5. You’re safe being your true selves
No masks, no pretenses — just authenticity and acceptance.
6. You protect each other’s hearts
Not with control, but with loyalty, trust, and care.
7. Boundaries are honored naturally
Flirting, comparisons, wandering eyes — they simply don’t exist. π
8. Each other’s happiness feels like your own
A smile from them lights up your world.
9. Time together is never wasted
Even silence feels full when you’re with each other.
10. Flaws don’t push you apart
You notice them, but they make your love more real, not weaker.
11. Details are remembered
From favorite little things to deep needs, attention is constant.
12. You’re proud to have each other by your side
Love isn’t hidden — it shines openly.
13. You dream of a shared future
When you look ahead, it’s always us, never just me. π«
14. Each other’s pain touches you
You can’t stay indifferent — protecting one another comes naturally.
15. Support flows both ways
Dreams and goals are encouraged, not diminished.
16. Respect remains in conflict
Arguments never erase tenderness or kindness.
17. You choose “us” over “me”
Decisions are made with the relationship in mind. πΉ
18. You are each other’s safe space
The first person you turn to in joy or struggle.
19. You keep choosing each other, again and again
Love is a daily decision, not just a feeling.
20. Eyes — and hearts — stay only on one another
Even in a crowded room, you remain the only ones who matter. ✨
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